We’ve previously talked about the definition of kinky and what makes a fetish. Now, it’s time to list all those kinks in one place. It’s unlikely that you’ve heard of every fetish or kink on this list of kinks; although, we’d be willing you have – or have at least thought about – a few of them! Some of them are fairly common, after all.
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Abduction as seduction: a kink where the abductor/kidnapper treats the victim in a loving manner.
Abrasions: people who enjoy this fetish like giving or receiving cuts and scrapes.
Accidental stimulation: refers to accidental physical stimulation and situations that arouse adrenaline and cause arousal.
Age play: role play in which one or both partners pretends to be a different age/stage. Types of age play include infantilism, Daddy/daughter play, and diaper play, among others. Some kinksters differentiate between DD/lg and age play. .
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Agoraphilia: fetish dedicated to sex in public places.
Aliens: kinksters fetishize about having sex with aliens, often in an abduction and forced scenario. Alien dildos and masturbators are popular as you’ll discover .
Altocalciphilia: a fetish for high heels, usually worn by women but not always. .
Amazons and authoritarians: fetish dedicated to physically strong women like Amazons, women with strong personalities, or women in positions of authority.
Amaurophilia: kink for being unable to see, blinded or blindfolded during sex. Find and discover .
Anal penetration: a fetish for anal penetration with foreign objects (not sex toys or penises). Inserting objects that are not designed for anal safety (porous, without a flared base, with sharp edges) can cause damage.
Anal toys worn under clothing: a fetish for using/wearing anal toys such as butt plugs (discover how these work) during the day and not just during sex activity. It may be a command of a submissive by a dominant, part of anal training to take bigger items or penises and/or as part of foreplay.
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Anal training: the practice of preparing one’s anus for inserting large items.
Anonymous sex: a kink revolving around anonymous sexual encounters where one or both parties is unaware of the other’s identity. Gloryholes are a common form of anonymous sex but they are not the only form.
Asphyxiation: a highly danerous kink dedicated to choking, smothering and strangulation. Autoerotic asphyxiation is self-choking. To be clear, asphyxiation is very dangerous and has led to injuries and deaths    . See also breath play. Vice has an and BDSM author about the subject.
Autogynephilia: a kink where men present/dress as women (gynemimetophilia refers to men impersonating women). Autoandrophilia is arousal at the idea of being a man. The term was coined as an improvement on cross-dressing kink and has been used to describe transgendered individuals, particularly as mentally ill. TSRoad talks .
Autofellatio: a kink where a man performs a blowjob on himself. Yoga can make this practice easier or possible , and you can learn .
Barebacking: sex without a condom. Barebacking is especially common in the gay community, but this act can be dangerous and lead to STI transmission or pregnancy. Learn how and why you should use a condom. In , the author admits to being “addicted” to the self-destructive behavior.
Bathroom control: when the dominant person controls when, how and where the submissive can urinate or defecate. Extreme bathroom control can be dangerous. This kink may be more popular than even kinksters realize according to .
Begging: kink for begging and pleading (to have sex, for release/orgasm, to perform an act, etc.). Begging is submissive in nature.
Belonephilia: affinity to pins, needles and sharp objects. Belonephilia can be quite dangerous. See also knife play.
Bestiality: sex with animals. The same as zoophilia .
Blindfolds: a type of bondage that blocks a person’s vision. See also amaurophilia. Check out the .
Bondage: restraint of a person, either by physical item (cuffs, rope, etc.) or instruction (known as mental bondage). Restraint can be full-body (vacuum beds, suspension) or involve a single body part such as the eyes (blindfold), mouth (ball gag), wrists or even thumbs. Bondage may include furniture and devices. Reddit has a number of subreddits dedicated to the subject.
Body modification: kink for a variety of body modifications. This may mean anything that changes the appearance of a body from tattoos to piercings to saline injections, but this kink may also only refer to specific body mods such as lip sewing. from Dr. Mark Griffiths or check out on Kinkly.
Branding: marking someone with a symbol, word, etc. Typically uses a heated object (such as a metal hanger) to produce the brand. Branding is dangerous. One master states that they .
Breath play: choking and limiting breath. Being aroused by this is known as hypoxyphilia This kink is a type of edge play that is dangerous. Discover with extreme caution from an experienced dominant and learn the risks in .
Breast/nipple torture: the breast equivalent of CBT. Torture may include hitting, pinching, bondage, and other methods of inflicting pain onto breasts.
Breast/nipple worship: the act of worshipshipping someone’s breasts or nipples.
Caning: the act of hitting someone with a rod known as caning. Fleshy areas such as the back of the thighs and butt are advised, but some people enjoy caning the bottoms of feet. Canes are traditionally made from wood, but modern canes may be made from plastic, metal or other semi-flexible materials. Caning is a form of impact play that is more extreme than typical flogging and may be dangerous if done improperly. Kinky Ever After provides for those who want to get into caning. You can also check out the on caning, and making canes.
Castration: An extreme fetish involving removal of all or part of a man’s genitals. Actual castration is incredibly dangerous. Most kinksters obsess over it without actually going through with it. This kink goes hand in hand with emasculation fetishes as well as the ball busting, in which a man’s balls are crushed. Stop by this .
CBT: Cock and ball torture (CBT) is pain applied to a man’s genitals. It may be a form of punishment. CBT can involve shoes, sounding, stretching, impact implements and other tools. CBT can be dangerous. This page has more on it (contains nudity).
Chastity: a fetish where someone’s access to their genitals is blocked. Women wear chastity belts, and men wear cock cages that prevent erection and release. Also known as forced abstinence or forced celibacy. Chastity can be used as a form of self-denial or orgasm control. . Cara Sutra confesses to .
Choking: blood choking is the act of choking someone until they pass out. It is incredibly dangerous (which we wrote about before – check out that post) and can lead to brain damage. Choking is a type of edge play: Danger and Play has if you want to try. Women’s Health Mag has , too.
Claustrophilia: this fetish is the opposite of claustrophobia. A person becomes aroused or experiences orgasm through confinement to small spaces. This is a type of bondage. Discover more .
Clothed sex (endytophilia): the affinity for sex while fully or partially clothed. You can enjoy this kink while lifting your skirt or dress, so your man penetrates you. Pushing underwear to the side can also be a form of this fetish. Check out about clothed sex. A particular variant of clothed sex is the clothed female, nude male (CFNM) fetish.
Cock and/or ball fetishization: an obsession with cock and balls.
Cock worship: similar to breast worship. This fetish involves verbal, physical and mental adoration of a penis – including fake ones (strap-ons).
Collaring: the act of wearing a collar to show submission, loyalty and/or devotion to a dominant. A collar may be seen as purely sexual or also romantic (similar to an engagement/wedding ring). Collars may be placed on in public or private collaring ceremonies, and dominants may provide instructions for wearing collars. The collar may be an actual collar purchased from a pet store, one that is hand-tooled or a safe-for-work necklace or choker that can be worn in non-kinky spaces. One dominant , and there’s even a g.
Consensual nonconsent: situations where one or both parties have given prior consent for activities that may appear to be or actually involve nonconsent. Rape play is a common form. The “victim” has given prior consent to this type of play but seems to resist. Couples should negotiate boundaries beforehand, including a safe word. Consensual nonconsent should never be spontaneous. If negotiations are avoided or safe words ignored, consensual nonconsent can lead to real trauma or even become sexual assault. Find examples , read , or learn about .
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Corsetry: the act of wearing a corset, sometimes to the extent of changing the shape and size of one’s body. Tight-lacing a corset enables one to successfully waist-train. Some dominants may use tight-lacing to limit breathing. It’s not just limited to your abs and tummy either. Read more and .
Cross-dressing: dressing like a member of the opposite sex. For many people, it’s not necessarily sexual while it is for others. Cross-dressing can involves clothing, accessories, makeup, and wigs.
Crurophilia: A kink related to legs. It’s common enough that you’ll find multiple posts about it on Psych forums: and for example.
Crush fetish: a particular fetish relating to crushing small animals or objects. Squashing kink is a similar obsession. Check out for more.
Cunnilingus: this kink can be geared towards receiving oral sex as a woman or giving it either as a man or woman. Cunnilingus plays well with pussy worship. If your partner has a kink for licking pussy, you won’t need to convince him to go down on (but you can read this if that’s not the case).
Cupping: small cups or jars are applied upside down to the body, usually the back. Fire or a hand-pump creates suction that results in temporary bruising and a tight feeling. Extreme cupping can break the skin, but cupping is considered safe (the flame is only used for suction and doesn’t burn the skin). This has more info on cupping.
Dacryphilia: arousal caused by tears or crying. has some stellar info on dacryphilia.
Degradation: if you like when your man talks down to you during sex, you might be into degradation. This is one of those kinks that works especially well with domination and submission. Just because you like doing it (giving or receiving) during sex doesn’t mean you think any less of your partner. However, not everyone likes degradation, and that’s okay. Here’s more on the types of degradation on and .
Diapers: this fetish is usually part of infantilism – but not always.
Discipline: giving or receiving punishment for perceived or defined infractions. Discipline is a major part of many power exchange relationships and something typically desired by masochists and administered by sadists. Find out more about discipline and then learn .
Dirty talking: having a kink for talking dirty during sex is pretty tame. Some people might not even consider it a fetish! Get tips for talking dirty here. See also narratophilia.
Doraphilia: playing with skin, leather, or fur. Hyphephilia is a similar fetish for touching hair, fur, skin and certain fabrics. Check out this for more info.
Double penetration: penetration of a woman’s vagina and ass via a combination of toys, penises or both. Double penetration may be part of a group sex scenario (MFM). .
Dracophilia: a fetish for dragons. Fantasy fetish companies such as Bad Dragon make dragon dildos, including those that ejaculate!
DVP: stands for double vaginal penetration. Unlike double penetration (DP), which is simultaneous anal and vaginal penetration, DVP involves two penises or one penis and one toy in the vagina. It can be satisfying for all parties; although, it requires lube and preparation. In DVP, only one partner may have enough room to thrust. what one fan had to say about DVP.
Edge play: Any kink or fetish that is considered more risky or extreme. Examples include choking, breath play, knife play, fire play, and any activity that results in bleeding. Learn more and .
Electric play: playing with uncontrolled electricity is very dangerous and can even lead to heart failure. However, most people (aside from those with pacemakers, heart issues, and other implants), can safely play with TENS units or violet wands to explore this kink. Sexpress .
Enemas (klismaphilia  ): inserting a tube into the anus and using a liquid (typically water, but other solutions may be utilized including urine) to clean out the rectum. Enemas may be used to prepare for anal activities, but this is not necessary. An enema could be a form of punishment or control. Check out .
Exhibitionism: a common fetish for being naked and performing sexually in front of a person or persons. Masturbating for your partner is a mild form of this kink, but performing in sex windows or at BDSM shows and parties is a safe way to explore this fetish. Sex in public is partly exhibitionism. Related to agrexophilia, which is arousal when other people know about your sexual activities, and autagonistophilia, exposing oneself while on stage and being photographed. The counterpart of voyeurism. Learn more about and .
Exoticism: fetishizing members and elements of Far Eastern culture (Japan, China, etc.), including fictional worlds inspired by these locations. A preoccupation with Geishas is common in the Western world, for example. See also Otherness.
Face fucking: an extreme form of blowjob where a man roughly fucks a partner’s mouth. This kink isn’t inherently dangerous, but it can be uncomfortable and lead to tears, gagging and even vomiting.
Face sitting: the act of a woman sitting on a man’s face while he performs oral. Face sitting can include mild suffocation but doesn’t have to. It’s incredibly dominant. Check out other ways to dominate your man. has some great information on face sitting aka queening/kinging.
Face slapping: a slap across the face brings you to attention and corrects your mistakes. You’re unlikely to enjoy this fetish unless you’re a bit of a masochist, but it’s not as far out as some items on our list of kinks. Learn more about face slapping at and check out on Reddit for safety and problems that can arise.
Figging: using ginger root to create a burning sensation. It must be peeled before it can be inserted anally or vaginally. You can read about a figging experience at .
Fighting/Wrestling: play fighting and wrestling is sexy because your body proximity as you struggle to maintain control. Even if you lose, you don’t really lose! If you’re turned on by a fight between other people, you’re not alone, either.
Fire play: a form of edge play that involves flames and fire. Kinksters should be careful with hair, which can burn off and smell terrible (consider shaving first). Fire/heat may be contrasted with cold/ice. Fire play can be dangerous. BDSM Wiki breaks down the .
Fisting: the act of penetration with a full hand. Unlike the name suggests, your partner should start with your hand straight and thumb tucked under his fingers like a duck bill. After he inserts his knuckles – the widest part of his hand – he can curl his fingers into a fist/ball shape. Fisting requires time, patience, trust and lots of lube. Learn more here.
Flogging (flagellation): hitting someone with a multi-tailed tool known as a flogger. Depending upon the strength of the swing, flogging can range from warm-up to harsh impact that draws blood. Floggers tails come in many materials: fur, leather, suede, rubber, silicone, and ball-chain to name a few. has more on flogging and you can discover the .
Food play: incorporating food into sex. This may mean using someone as a dish or table, covering your partner’s body with food and licking it off (think whipped cream or chocolate sauce, but you can get creative!). Food play can be fun, but beware that playing with food near your vagina could contribute to a yeast infection. More on that here. A fetish for food is known as sitophilia. You can learn more about food play at .
Foot fetish (podophilia): a foot fetishist enjoys feet sexually. This may involve footjobs, licking and sucking, massaging. Foot worship in a power exchange scene can take the form of polishing shoes or boots even with a tongue or worshipping feet! Dr Griffiths while some .
Forced feeding: a kink for forcing someone to eat, potentially until they gain weight. This fetish is a type of body modification fetish. Feederism specifically refers to men feeding women. Here’s a first-hand.
Frotting: rubbing of two penises together. One man may hold the penises together during this act. Similar activities include frottage (rubbing while clothed for sexual stimulation) and frotteurism (rubbing or fondling an unsuspecting/non-consenting person). is probably the best place to learn more about frotting.
Furries: this kink is hot, literally. Furries dress as animals or humanoid animal creatures, sometimes decked head-to-toe in fur. They often don animalistic dildos via strap-ons to enhance their furry play. Many furries engage in roleplay and cosplay as part of their lifestyle, which can become quite expensive. Furry fandom is so popular that and the have written about it.
Gags: a form of mouth bondage. Gags come in many forms, but ball gags are the most common. They may also take the form of bit, cleave, pacifier, penis or spider gag, among others. Mouth gags aren’t usually dangerous, but they can be uncomfortable. Make sure to fit the gag properly to your (or your partner’s) mouth. AskMen discusses this popular fetish . You’ll also find a complete .
Gerontophilia: attraction to someone from a much older age group. May-December relationships (what’s this? found out here) can fall into this kink if the members of the couple specifically fetishize the age difference. explains this in more detail.
Golden showers: See watersports.
Group sex (Polyiterophilia): group sex and multiple party scenarios can be quite hot, but they can also be uncomfortable. Threesomes are one of the more common arrangements (and a fascination with three-person sex is known as triolism/troilism). Wanna try a threesome yourself? Find out how to make it awesome.
Haematomania: lust for blood and bleeding. May include wounds, vampirism or biting to draw blood. Ravlishly has an on someone with this fetish. A Kinkster’s Guide to blood play . It goes without saying that this one is obviously quite dangerous.
Harpaxophilia: the fetish for being robbed. Can be played as a role in consensual non-consent. Chrematistophilia is a similar kink for being forced to pay for sex.
Helplessness: any role in which someone is helpless. They may be the victim to their roleplay partner (robber, kidnapper, etc), or their partner may act as a savior (think of a princess who needs saving or an inept housewife). Learn more about fear play.
Hypnotism: in an erotic situation, hypnosis could be a form of consensual nonconsent. Try out this kink with some sexy magician/assistant role play. As always, has some great information on erotic hypnosis.
Immobility: a kink involving bondage and forced feeding.
Impact play: any activity involving hitting, either with body parts or other tools. Hitting, punching, spanking, flogging, whipping and paddling are just a few forms of impact play, and intensity varies with the tool and effort. The Dominant Guide has an entire . and the has some interesting tips on it too.
Impregnation: the fascination with making someone pregnant/conception during sex, typically from a man’s point of view. has some interesting analysis on it and what Broadly has to say on it.
Imprisonment: obsession with being locked inside cages, cells, coffins or other areas.
Infantilism: a specific type of age play where someone plays an infant/baby. This can involve pacifiers, diapers, bottles, etc. A second person may act as a nanny or parent. Our advice is to check out for information on this one.
Internal cumshots: similar to a semen fetish but arousal is due to being ejaculated into rather than on. If you’re trying to avoid pregnancy, anal sex is the only safe way to engage in this kink. But STIs can be transmitted through semen even during anal sex.
Intercrural or interfemoral sex: thrusting between someone’s thighs without penetration. has more on it.
Intoxication: taking drugs or alcohol during or before a sex scene. Intoxication can lead to poor decision-making, risky behavior and mistakes that could be dangerous or even fatal, especially when mixed with edge play.
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Keraunophilia: a sexual fascination with thunder and lightning – similar to arousal from thunderstorms (brontophilia). You can’t incorporate it into your sex, but a thunderstorm makes a good backdrop for sexy times! Many people find their levels of desire increase during storms. Read more about it at .
Kigurumi: this fetish is all about wearing anime masks, specifically men who wear masks of women.
Knife play: a type of edge play activity that involves actual knives or blades or the implication of. Breaking someone’s skin during kinky sex could be quite dangerous. at BDSM wiki can help to prevent anything seriously dangerous from happening. from a Redditor offers advice on your knife play scene.
Lactation: a lactation fetishist is all about lactating mammaries, that is, boobs producing milk. Many women enjoy the sensation of nipple suckling, and their partners enjoy breastfeeding. Lactation fetishists may encourage lactation when it wouldn’t naturally occur because the milk specifically is their kink (lactophilia), or engage in breastfeeding without milk. Learn how to breastfeed your man. You can find answers about this fetish and .
Latex/rubber: latex, rubber, PVC and similar materials attract our eyes with their sheen. They make for perfect fetish photography, too. Fortunately, you can get your kink on with the help of many retailers that specialize in latex gear and clothing. Wikipedia has an that will fill you in with more details. You can learn more about the allure of latex in on Vice and on Alternet.
Lesbophilia: men with this kink enjoy lesbian sex more than your typical male. Some may go so far as to imagine themselves as women in girl-on-girl scenarios.
Macro Fetish: people with this kink enjoy partners who are giant. This may mean plus-sized, but it can mean giants in the realm of fantasy roleplaying and writing. as does .
Macrogenitalism: a fetish for genitals that are particularly large. This isn’t limited just to penises
Maschalagnia: a fetish dedicated to armpits, including, kissing, licking and smelling. This kink may also involve inserting penises in the armpit for stimulation. Dr. Mark Griffiths . Fetish.com . remove
Masochism: enjoyment of pain, punishment, and torture. Someone who feels this is known as a masochist. Masochists are often but not always submissive. Quora users “Why are some people masochistic?”. Psychology Today also has some .
Medical play: role play involving medical scenarios, medical implements (scalpels, needles, speculums, etc) and/or medical uniforms. Medical play often involves an examination of one person by the “doctor,” who may take advantage of the situation. Play piercing is also common in medical play. Any play that breaks the skin can be dangerous if an infection occurs. on medical play at Kink Weekly explains more.
Menophilia: an obsession with menstrual blood. Fetishists of this type don’t mind period sex. In fact, they may prefer it. And they might like going down on a woman when she has her period. Learn .
Merinthophilia: the fetish for bondage. See also vincilagnia.
Mess fetish (hygrophilia): if you would rather avoid the wet spot on the bed, then this kink probably isn’t for you. Mess fetishists enjoy the mess created by sexual fluids, both male and female fluid. They may use the fluids as lubes, to drink, to “paint” on their partner’s body or passing it back and forth orally (snowballing).
Micro fetish: the opposite of a macro fetish. Kinksters enjoy when partners are much smaller than them or being the smaller partner. Those who fall into the latter group may enjoy the feeling of being crushed during sex. Here’s a by someone who has a micro fetish.
Military: a military fetish that often goes hand in hand with a uniform fetish.
Mixophilia: a kink related to watching yourself having sex. Recording sex and mirrors are two ways to enjoy this kink. Elite Daily . This shows that many people enjoy this activity.
Morphophilia: people with this fetish are attracted to bodies and body parts that are different from the norm. They might enjoy amputees, dwarves or people with other deformations. is a beginner’s Guide to Morphophilia.
Mummification: a kink where someone is bound entirely or nearly entirely to prevent almost all movement. A vacuum bed can achieve full mummification as can plastic wrap, but it can be dangerous if bindings prevent airflow. Mummification can also involve extreme temperatures, so hydration is a must to do it safely. . Kink Lovers has a .
Muscles: some people have a fetish for defined or large muscles. Muscle worship is one variant of this kink. .
Mysophilia: this fetish is for dirt and items that have been dirtied, especially by bodily fluids during sex. Used underwear is a common example. Here’s a by Dr. Griffiths.
Narratophilia: a fetish shared by those who enjoy telling and listening to dirty stories, talking about sex or incorporating dirty talk into sex. looks into narratophilia as a possible disorder as well as a healthy kink. Dr. Griffith also has a of narratophilia.
Nasophilia: fetish for noses. Interestingly there is a that notes Freud suggested the nose was a metaphor for the penis.
Necrophilia: the fetish for human corpses. Wikipedia presents . Blumhouse details .
Needle play: playing with needles can involve breaking the skin and temporary piercing. Needles can also be used to scratch. BDSM Wiki provides needle play advice and safety tip . Painful Pleasures includes .
Nonconsensual: a kink for sex without consent (rape). All nonconsensual sexual activities and play are forms of sexual assault or rape. This is illegal, traumatizing and can be dangerous.
Nullification: kink for removing any body part. This is very dangerous.
Nullo: an extreme kink for removal of genitals. In practice, nullo is very dangerous and can even be fatal. has more.
Nyctophilia: if you love the night, you might have this fetish. It can also refer to fetishizing darkness. Scotophilia has the same meaning. There is even an entire dedicated to nyctophilia.
Objectophilia (Objectum Sexuality): also known as fetishism. This refers specifically to arousal by and sexual activity with an inanimate object such as shoes. has more on it.
Oculolinctus: desire to lick eyeballs. , this is an “alleged” fetish.
Oculophilia: an obsession with the eyes. Get a look into oculophilia .
Odaxelagnia: kink for biting or being bitten. May or may not involve blood. is a personal account by someone who likes to be bitten.
Odontophilia: the general fetish for teeth, which can include biting, licking teeth or even removing them.
Olfactophilia: attraction to smells, especially pungent body odors. Osmolagnia is the fetish for sweat or gaseous emissions specifically. is a great reference on the subject.
Orgasm denial: type of play where someone’s orgasm is denied entirely, limited/ruined or delayed. Kinkly .
Otherness: sexual attraction to someone from other places, including aliens. See all xenophilia and exoticism.
Parthenophilia: a fetish for virginal partners. has great info on both brief look at parthenophilia and it’s relative harmatophilia.
Partialism: sexual obsession for specific body parts and not the whole. Eyes, faces, forearms, and feet are all common objects of obsession, but any body part will do. Wikipedia has .
Pecattiphilia: fetish for sinning and breaking religious rules. Dr. Griffiths .
Pediophilia: fetish for dolls, especially sex dolls. Here’s a from someone with a doll fetish that hopefully gives you a little more insight into it. about it. SexWiki discusses the
Penis Humiliation: a kink involving insulting a man’s penis, including size, appearance, and performance. Discover .
Peodeiktophilia: showing one’s penis to others (flashing).
Pet play: any kink where someone acts like a domesticated pet. Cats and dogs are especially common with leashes, collars and food/water dishes used as props. Wikipedia . Metro also has with photos of costumes.
Phallophilia: obsession with large penises. Many people share this kink .
Phobophilia: sexual obsession with being afraid. This fetish can be directed toward hate as well as fear. tackles the biological connection between arousal and fear.
Phygephilia: fetish for being a fugitive on the run.
Pictophilia: fetish for watching porn, especially of the same actor.
Play piercing (Piquerism, Picquerism): play piercing is performed for temporary decoration as well as for the sensation of breaking the skin. has more on this kink.
Plushophilia: fetish for stuffed animals. These people may have a kink specifically for teddy bears, and they may be furries. Reddit has numerous communities on stuffed animals.
Pony play: a kink for acting like a pony or its master. “Ponies” can wear everything from blinders to bits to bridles to fake ears and hooves. Ponies are trained by their masters and may even do manual labor. cpony is the ultimate .
Pregnancy: this kink goes beyond a woman’s pregnant glow. Some people just can’t get enough of a pregnant woman’s powerful and sexy body. It’s so common that there are three different names for it: maiesiophilia, preggophilia, and maieusophoria. Your partner may even be surprised by how turned on he is when you’re pregnant – and your hormones might have you wanting more sex, too. Discover how pregnancy affects your hormones. One man who loves pregnant women on Jezebel.
Psychrocism: fetish dedicated to being cold, having sex with a cold partner or using cold objects (ice cubes, cold dildos, etc) during sex. Dr. Mark wrote the .
Pubephilia: obsession with pubic hair. A love for pubic hair has been expressed in literature and art. .
Pygmalionism: sexual obsession with human-like images. This fetish may lead to stimulating oneself with statues or mannequins.
Pygophilia: partialism to butts and seeing, touching and playing with them. Reddit chimes in with .
Pyrolagnia: sexual arousal from watching or setting fires. Playing with fire is dangerous. At least one study has been done on the subject .
Pyrophilia: a fascination with fire. Setting fires and using fire during sex can be dangerous. However, massage candles can be used safely because of the wax’s low melting point, and fire cupping is not usually risky. has more. Discover more about the sexual obsession with fire .
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Rape fantasy: a fetish for acting out a pretend rape (consensual nonconsent). This fantasy can occur on both the victim or perpetrator’s sides. Arousal at the idea of rape is known as raptophilia. has more on this and you can read about .
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Retifism: the fetish for shoes and footwear. Also known as altocalciphilia. has some really great information on this fetish.
Rhabdophilia: a fetish for receiving physical beatings such as flogging or whipping. The responses shed light on why some people enjoy “violent” activities including flogging.
Robotism: kink for robots, cyborgs or androids. Find out more .
Ropework: a kink for rope as used as the specific type of bondage. Popular types of ropework include the Japanese-inspired shibari, more correctly called “Kinbaku”. BDSM Wiki has a . has tons of useful information for getting started as does .
Rimming: a kink for giving or receiving rim jobs. Interested? Check out our guide here. Check out . Another goes far enough to call life without rimming “incomplete.”
Sadism: the kink for providing pain. Masochists and sadists often come together to meet one another’s kinky needs. Learn . You can also read this enlightening .
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Scatophilia a fetish for fecal matter. Also known as coprophilia. has more on this one.
Sensation play: a light kink where partners exchange sensations on the skin. Items with different textures (soft, hard, bumpy, smooth, cold, hot, etc) can be run across the skin. Pain isn’t involved, but you can alternate between pain and sensation play for light BDSM.
Sensory deprivation: any play that prevents someone from using one of their five senses. Blindfolds block sight, gloves prevent touch, earmuffs deprive the sense of hearing, etc.
Siderodromophilia: a fetish for trains or engaging in sexual activity on a train.
Slime fetish: a kink for slime and slimy things. Tentacles are a prime example of a slime fetish in popular media. This fetish is closely related to the mess fetish.
Sneezing Fetish: a kink for watching someone else sneeze. This person is usually naked. Sneezing elicits a bodily response somewhat similar to orgasm. People with a sneeze fetish might also participate in tickling and forced urinating kinks. Learn more at the .
Snuff: a fantasy fetish for killing someone or being killed. Snuff is often considered to be an urban legend, and it’s an obviously dangerous and illegal in practice.
Somnophilia: the fetish for sexual partners who are asleep. It is a rare fetish . People with this fascination may enjoy the “sleeping princess” trope. In reality, a partner should specify prior consent to sexual activity that happens or begins while they are asleep because sleeping people cannot give consent. Definitions differ, however. Learn more at on Somnophilia.
Sounding: a kink for inserting thin tubes, usually made of glass or metal, into the urethra. This is one of the most common forms of urethral play . Kinksters often use medical sounds or similar tools, and sounding can be part of medical play. Sounding can be dangerous, especially if the item inserted breaks off internally or is not sanitized beforehand. The Daily Beast addresses .
Spanking: this is a fetish that many people have tried in the bedroom. A firm hand comes into play as punishment or enticement in many power exchange relationships, including domestic discipline (more on that here) relationships and schoolgirl roleplay. You might enjoy spanking from time to time even if you don’t consider yourself all that kinky, but spanking can also be quite extreme. Read about or from someone with a spanking fetish.
Stigmatophilia: the fetish for piercings and sometimes tattoos. See body modification fetish. Dr. Griffiths can .
Stockings: items that are often fetishized. Some people like all of them. Others prefer those that are lace-topped, hooked to a garter belt or with a visible seam down the back. There is an incredibly
Strap-on: fetish specifically for using strap-ons. Anal, oral or vaginal penetration can be achieved. Anally penetrating a male with a strap-on is known as pegging.
Stuffing: eating until the point of physical pain. .
Suspension: the practice of suspending someone from the ground or being suspended yourself. Suspension can be accomplished with ropes, harnesses and other devices and items. If you ignore safety measures, suspension can be dangerous. has more on this. One author writes about .
Symphorphilia: fetish for watching car accidents or other traumatic incidents. has more on this one.
Taphephilia: fetish for being buried alive. This may be connected to an imprisonment kink.
Teasing (Tantalolagnia): To enjoy teasing as sexual gratification. This may be prolonged sexual teasing or teasing in the form of insults and ribbing.
Technophilia: a fetish for any technology such as robots, AI and sex machines. Kinks for cybernetic enhancements fall into this category, and some may fetishize the idea of amputations.
Telephonicophilia: the fetish for phone sex and dirty talking over the phone.
Tentacle fetish: fetish for tentacles. Many people enjoy animated erotica/porn with tentacles, and tentacles dildos also lend to this fantasy. Kotaku examines the , which may be older than you realize, .
Thesauromania: kink for collecting women’s clothing. The collector may focus on specific items/categories such as underwear. recounts Japan’s notorious shoe thief, who may have suffered from this fetish.
Tickling (Knismolagnia, Knismo): while tickling can be a form of teasing, it’s a kink in its own right for some people. Those who enjoy tickling may enjoy surrendering control or struggling to retain it. Tickling to the point of urinating is also one flavor of this fetish. Tickle torture is a kink for tickling or being tickled while bound. Psychology Today .
Transformation fetish: kink for transforming into other people or even non-human creatures. TF is common in hentai and some written erotica. Transformation may have a variety of causes, which you can read .
Trichophilia: hair fetish. There is an .
Triolism: a fetish for threesomes. This may include a kink for watching your partner have sex with someone else. who experiences this kink.
Tripsolagnophilia: massage fetish. Even if you don’t have a fetish, a sensual massage can be relaxing and it’s good foreplay!
Underwear fetish: the fascination with underwear, usually women’s underwear. Men with this fetish will collect, wear or smell underwear. is a great place to learn more about this one. also has a post that examines how lucrative someone else’s underwear fetish can be for someone willing to sell theirs.
Uniforms: many women love a man in uniform, but not every couple incorporates this into their sex lives. Those who do just might have a uniform fetish. Uniforms, of course, can make someone seem like a powerful person (military, police and firefighter uniforms are some of the most popular) or help you get into the role of a naif (schoolgirl, waitress, Playboy bunny) and a well-fitted uniform shows off a person’s body in just the right way. If your job requires a uniform, you’re in luck. Otherwise, you can hit up a costume shop or even buy uniform-inspired lingerie.
Looking for more information? Check out by Dr Mark Griffiths or discover .
Ursusagalmatophilia: kink for teddy bears or dressing up as a teddy bear/animal. Dr. Mark Giffiths .
Urtication: using the nettle plant to sting a partner’s skin. The practice may help with joint pain, .
Vaccinophilia: vaccination fetish. See also medical play and belonephilia.
Vicarphilia: being sexually vicarious, specifically related to enjoying other’s stories of sexual activity.
Vincilagnia: kink for being tied up and at the mercy of another person. This is a type of bondage fetish.
Vomit Fetish (Emetophilia): a sexual obsession with the act or substance of vomit. has more on this one. Or you can read an from someone whose partner was into this kink.
Vore/Vorarephilia : sexual desire to be eaten alive or to eat someone while they are still alive. Vore is incredibly dangerous and illegal, but you’ll find plenty of art and stories dedicated to vore on DeviantArt, Tumblr, and Reddit. is probably the best place to find out more about this one.
Voyeurism: a kink for watching someone else while naked or engaged in sexual activity. Voyeurs and exhibitionists make excellent pairings. Non-consensual voyeurism may be against the law. Ecouteurism is a related kink for listening to someone have sex without permission. The fetish is also known as scopophilia. Psych Central explains . It’s quite popular if these on Experience Project are any indication.
Watersports (urophilia): A relatively popular fetish, watersports are also known as golden showers. This kink involves playing with urine, being peed on or urinating on another person. Want to know more about golden showers? Check out for more. A particular form of this is wetting: urinating in one’s underwear and clothing.
Wax play: using wax during sex. Wax comes in the form of massage candles, which are relatively safe. But other types of wax may have a higher melting point and be more dangerous. Flames used to melt wax also pose a risk. Learn more .
Weapon fetish: sexual arousal due to weapons. This appears in some erotic media.
Wet and messy (WAM) fetish: being turned on by being soiled by things other than bodily fluids. Also known as sploshing. This can include food. One woman tells all in . Buzzfeed looks into the .
Xenophilia: sexual attraction to exotic people or objects. and have more. This is very similar to exoticism.
Yeastiality: sexual activity involving bread, especially warm dough. This may be an alleged kink. Introducing yeast to the genitals can lead to an infection.
Yiffing: sex with stuffed animals or a furry.
Zelophilia: arousal due to jealousy, either your own or someone’s jealousy over you. Cuckhold fantasies are one such example where men know – and sometimes watch – their wives engaging in affairs. One reader writes in about .
Zentai: wearing skintight suits while grinding against others in similar suits. has a detailed page on Zentai suits.
Zoophilia: dressing like an animal for sex or feeling romantic attraction to animals. Check out about a man whose boyfriend is a zoophile.
Zoosexual: sexual attraction to animals. See bestiality.
Zwischenstufe: the sexual obsession to people of the same sex.
That’s it for our list of kinks – for now! If you noticed that we are missing something, please let us know in the comments section below.
As you can see, the list of kinks is a long one! There are a huge amount of sexual fetishes, and many people have more than one. New kinks seem to pop up on a daily basis, so there’s no way to keep up with a list of fetishes! For the most part, a fetish or kink can be fun; although, there are some times when it can disturbing, dangerous or illegal to participate in them, and you might want to seek professional help if your fetish falls into that category or if it’s disrupting your life.
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